Steady Legal Help When Life Gets Overwhelming

Steady Legal Help When
Life Gets 
Overwhelming

Bilingual family law support for people navigating divorce, custody, and protection orders in San Diego.
  • Take action when it matters most
  • Know your rights and your options
  • Feel supported, not steamrolled
Family Law Professor
Mexican Consulate Attorney
County Hearing Officer
San Diego Family Law Since 2012
Family Law Professor
Mexican Consulate Attorney
County Hearing Officer
San Diego Family Law Since 2012

When Everything Feels Uncertain,
It's Hard to Know Where to Start

Family law isn't just paperwork — it's your home, your kids, your safety, your future.

Between the stress, the confusion, and the urgency of it all, finding the right legal help can feel just out of reach. One wrong move and things get worse. The other side already has an attorney. You don't know what's fair, what's possible, or where to even begin.

What you need is someone calm, capable, and clear — someone who won't disappear on you or make things worse.

Move Forward With Protection, Support, and Real Guidance

You don’t need a guarantee. You need a guide.

Someone who shows up, reads the documents, makes the calls, and tells you the truth. Someone who keeps you informed instead of leaving you in the dark.

Whether you’re filing for divorce, defending yourself against a restraining order, or fighting to bring your child home — you deserve legal help that makes you feel like you’re not doing this alone.

Family Law Support That's Steady, Honest, and Culturally Aware

We don't just handle legal issues — we walk with real people through moments that matter. In English or Spanish.

Divorce & Child
Custody

From amicable agreements to contested litigation — we help you protect what matters most.

Domestic Violence & Restraining Orders

Fast, focused representation — whether you need protection or are defending against serious allegations.

International Child Abduction

Hague Convention cases, cross-border custody, and emergency legal action when a child has been taken abroad.
Also handling:
Parenting plan modifications
Child support
LGBTQ+ family law matters
Also handling:
Parenting plan modifications
Child support
LGBTQ+ family law matters

"I'm Ben Aguilar.

I don't believe in scare tactics or sugarcoating. I believe in preparation, clear communication, and representing you with integrity — from the first conversation to the final court order.

I've been a family law attorney in San Diego since 2012. I've taught family law at California Western School of Law, served as a consulting attorney for the Mexican Consulate, and work as a County Hearing Officer — which means I understand how the bench thinks, not just how to argue in front of it.

If you're overwhelmed, I'll help you find your next step. If you're in danger, I'll move fast to protect you. And if your case is complex, I'll break it down and walk with you every step of the way.
Family Law Professor
Mexican Consulate Attorney
County Hearing Officer

Here's How We Move Forward Together

Step 01

Book a consultation

Schedule a time to meet in person or virtually. We'll review your situation, your documents, and your goals.

Step 02

Get honest advice

No pressure, no fluff. Just a clear picture of what's possible under the law — and the realistic options ahead.

Step 03

Take your next step

Whether we settle through negotiation or go to court, we'll go in prepared — and you won't face it alone.

What Clients Are Saying

Other
I found Ben when I searched for a Spanish speaking attorney in San Diego. I lived in Texas at the time and I knew that I was going to have to hire an attorney in San Diego and that all our communications would be over the phone and emails. I wanted to make sure I was able to easily communicate in my own language when I called his office or emailed him. Ben made me feel comfortable throughout the entire process. When the case was over he made sure that all orders were followed and that paperwork was filed. This was very helpful given that I lived out of state.
Silvia
Child Custody
I met Mr. Aguilar at the courthouse. I saw him defend his client’s position in front of the judge and he won. As he was walking out, I asked him for his business card. I called him as soon as I left the courthouse and he was able to give me a consultation the same day. I hired him right away based on his courtroom performance. I ended up getting my children back full time. Mr. Aguilar was in the right place at the right time when I met him.
Lisset
Divorce
My children’s father has taken me to court multiple times over the years. Ben has been my attorney for the past 6 or 7 years and I keep coming back to him because he always goes above and beyond my expectations. I have referred friends, family, and neighbors to him because I trust him.
Karina
Divorce
Ben represented my best friend in his divorce case and he recommended him to me. I contacted Ben as soon as I was served with divorce papers and I met with him the next day. He guided me through the process and helped me keep my expectations realistic. Ben suggested a four-way settlement conference with my wife and her attorney to try to negotiate a settlement. We ended up settling the case after 2 settlement meetings. I am thankful Ben was able to help me because this could have been an expensive process if we went to court for our divorce.
Fernando
Domestic Violence and Restraining Orders
I called Mr. Aguilar because I needed a restraining order against my wife. I had a feeling this would be an uphill battle because I am a big guy that does not look like victim. Unfortunately, behind closed doors my wife was verbally and physically abusive towards me and our 3 year old son. It got to a point where I could not continue letting her use corporal punishment against my son every time she was upset over very miniscule things. Mr. Aguilar was very understanding and he help me obtain all the evidence I needed in order to present a compelling case to the judge on the day of my hearing. I obtained a restraining order than includes my son. I was very hesitant to get the divorce and restraining order started because I thought there could be some bias since I am a guy. Luckily, Mr. Aguilar helped me overcome this situation.
Brian
Divorce
I am forever thankful that a friend recommended Ben to me. Ben really took the time t listen to my side of the story. Ben went above and beyond. My ex was making really serious false allegations about my fitness as a father. Ben did not wait to get a mediator’s parenting plan recommendation instead he picked up the phone and set up appointments to talk in person with my son’s teachers. I was quite impressed that he was so hands on and really did everything he could to present the truth on the day we had our court hearing. Ben was able to show to the judge that my ex was lying because she did not want to deal with co-parenting. If you need an attorney that will listen and will play investigator and will do whatever it takes to show that you are a fit parent, you should definitely give Ben a call.
Eric
Child Custody
My ex and children live in California. but I live out of state and could not travel to San Diego for the various court hearings. Mr, Aguilar arranged for me to appear over the telephone every time the court needed me to appear. Mr.Aguilar kept me informed about the status of my case and promptly notified me of any developments. I saved a lot of money by not having to travel to California for the various hearings. I truly believe the outcome of my case would have been the same even if I were present for the court hearings. I learned to trust Mr. Aguilar during the divorce/custody process. Mr. Aguilar really made sure that my rights as a parent were preserved despite the fact that I live out of state.
JC
Divorce
My divorce case had been going on for almost a year when I contacted Mr. Aguilar. At that point my wife had requested a restraining order against me that included our 2 sons. I felt desperate because I knew I could lose my job and professional license if the restraining order was granted. Mr. Aguilar got the restraining order dismissed and also requested changes in the custody and visitation orders because it was clear that my ex wife had been lying during the entire process. Now, I get to see my children regularly, unsupervised and we have moved on with our lives.
Richard

With Ben, You Can:

Get urgent legal help without the runaround
Protect yourself and your children
Work with an attorney who actually reads what you send
Receive full legal support in English or Spanish
Understand your options — not just your bill
Take control of your situation with confidence

Frequently asked questions

Do I have to go to court?

Not necessarily. If both parties can reach an agreement, many family law matters — including divorce and custody — can be resolved without ever stepping into a courtroom. I always look for the path that saves you time, money, and stress.
Do courts always favor the mother in custody cases?
No. California courts look at the best interest of the child and the history of caregiving — not the parent's gender. If a father has been the primary caregiver, the court takes that seriously. The outcome depends on the facts, not assumptions.
Can I just hire you to draft one document?
No — and this protects you. I don't offer one-off document drafting for self-represented clients. If I'm involved in your case, I'm reviewing the full picture. That's the only way to give you real legal help, not just paperwork.
Do you work with Spanish-speaking clients?
Yes — fully. I'm bilingual in English and Spanish, and I work with the entire cultural context, not just the language. Every service I offer is available in both languages.
How much does it cost?
It depends on the complexity of your case. The best way to understand the likely cost is to book a consultation. I'll be upfront about fees and realistic about what your situation actually requires.

You Don't Have to Figure
This Out Alone

Bilingual family law support for people navigating divorce, custody, and protection orders in San Diego.
1420 Kettner Blvd., Ste. 300
San Diego, CA 92101
619-752-0125
[email protected]
The information on this website is for general informational purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice and does not create an attorney-client relationship.


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